Love, level ups, and laughs
- Benjamin Fraser
- Apr 5
- 2 min read
When my wife reminisced about her 12 year old self exploring the enchanting realms of Ragnarok Online, I couldn’t resist the call to dive in together. Gaming as a duo has brought us closer while keeping our screen time balanced and fulfilling.
Gaming together introduces natural checks and balances. With two separate schedules, real-life commitments often shape when and how long we can immerse ourselves in the digital world. This creates a rhythm, where playing is less about relentless hours and more about savoring moments. It turns each gaming session into a treasure to anticipate, packed with shared joy and engaging teamwork.
On a psychological level, co-op gaming nurtures connection. Sharing a passion like gaming has strengthened our communication and boosted our mutual understanding. Studies have suggested that social gaming improves mental health by reducing stress, promoting teamwork, and enhancing overall well-being. For my wife and I, it feels less like an isolated pastime and more like an interactive adventure where we laugh, strategize, and grow closer.
Admittedly, though, there’s the occasional gaming shenanigans. My wife, as enthusiastic as ever, has stealthily sneaked her laptop into the office for a quick fix. While her dedication is admirable, I might need to look into signing her up for our next course. As I contemplate the same tactic, perhaps I should join her!
So, whether you’re rekindling nostalgia or discovering a new world together, gaming with a loved one adds a layer of meaning that’s hard to match. It’s a journey worth embarking on, just don’t let your party member sneak away to rack up extra levels without you!



